Feeling Trapped?
Posted by Robin Easton
Sometimes we reach a place in our lives where we feel immobilized or trapped. We feel we need some kind of change but we don’t know what it is or how to go about it. The older I’ve grown I realize that the “trapped-ness” is usually caused by our chosen (or conditioned) perspective of Life’s possibilities. For most of us living in countries where we have enough food, water, clothing, shelter, and so forth, we have more options than we realize. In most cases the things that shift our perception are free and very simple.
So how do we see the world with fresh eyes? I thrive on doing new things, things I’ve never done before. They might be really grand like exploring a jungle by myself, taking a raft through class 5 rapids for the first time or as simple as going rollerskating or rolling in the snow just for the joy of feeling the cold powder and laughing my head off. I’ve found that trying new experiences (with an open heart and mind), meeting new people, feeling new emotions, and of course for me, being with Nature for a day or even an hour can make clear new possibilities and infuse me with new Life. Also doing the things we fear or have balked at in the past as “something we don’t do” can open exciting new doors into how we view the world, our lives and Life in general.
If all of my friends who come to this site were gathered in my living room and we picked one person’s life and laid it out, a day or week, hour by hour, then had that person discuss the frustrations and limitations that he or she feels, I’m sure we’d all come up with moment to moment ways of bringing Life back into that person’s week…entire life.
The possibilities are right under our noses. But when we don’t change anything…nothing changes. It’s that simple. Like David Wolfe says, “If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. If you keep believing what you’re believing, you’ll keep achieving what you’re achieving.” I believe we all know this on a cellular level. We know what is good for us and what is harmful for us. We know. In fact I have great faith in humanity and believe that there is little that we don’t know. When I talk with people I don’t approach them from a place of them “NOT knowing”, but rather from a place of them KNOWING. I have found that when people are acknowledged in this way, more often than not, they rise to who they really ARE. It is “Life” affirming “Itself”.
How do we feel something “new”, something more alive, if we live the same habits day after day? When I was twenty-five I started to realize that new experiences, things felt, seen, heard, smelled, tasted and sensed heightened my awareness of all that is available to me. Facing fear, addictions or destructive habits can also instill a new sense of vitality, courage, self-worth and a desire to live…REALLY LIVE. New experiences bring in new Life. Excitement fosters new ideas. Doors open and we see the world through fresh eyes.
Some of you might say, “Well, that’s all well and good but I can’t afford a vacation right now.” Or, “I can’t get away from work right now.” Or “I have kids.” I understand and yet you can still refresh your outlook on Life and see new possibilities by making changes to your life. To read more about doing this I am going to send you to one of my very first posts titled: “Munch Away Livers of Live” I think you will enjoy it as it encourages you to set yourself free day to day with the little things. Bringing possibilities into our lives is “a way of life”. Below is a video I did titled, “Infinite Possibilities”, that may further inspire you to LIVE.
I wish you vitality, spontaneity and life filled with…LIFE.
Love,
Robin
PS: I am moving slowly due to a head cold, so please bear with. Look forward to visiting as soon as I feel less “heady”. In fact, I’ve been very aware of my head the last few days. 
“INFINITE POSSIBILITIES”
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Lilly Says:
9 January 2009 at 2:22 pm.
Wow wow wow I am speechless. That was so powerful Robin. Why is it every time I visit I feel that you know just what I need to read and hear. Thank you. Its so true no-one else has the answers but us. Take Care my friend!
Robin Replies:
Hi Lilly, I just LOVE the spontaneous and vivaciousness of your comment. Do you know I could easily say the same about my visits to you site. I ALWAYS go away happy and feel more alive. I keep wondering about you riding those elephants!!! There is no doubt in my mind that you are VERY alive!
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lavinka Says:
9 January 2009 at 2:26 pm.
Sometimes it seems to me that we Europeans and Americans we are too good. That is to say we are too happy. Satiating hungry not understand. But even sometimes affects us evil, we too ill and die. We can buy the car, TV set and a large house. But how do you force someone to save the patient’s family? This is not so easy to do … as I am depressed, since the beginning of January, it turned out that my uncle has a tumor in the lung, cancer. Lung will be cut, but we do not know that there are no metastases. This is a family illness, my father and another brother or father of the dead. This is my beloved uncle, and I can not do anything. Can only watch and pray that the operation went. Václav Havel survived. It may also uncle?
Robin Replies:
Dearest “Lavinka”, I am so very sorry to hear this about your beloved Uncle. And I relate to and understand all your thoughts on Americans and Europeans. As well as your pain over your uncle. Having been in this situation before I think if you are able to visit or see your uncle all you can do is bring as much joy and love to him as you can. If you are able to visit him it might be a good thing if you can take things to share with him that inspire him to live or to laugh or that things that would interest him that would be a very good thing. You could play music for him or read to him or play a game with him or simply share stories. —-I think because so many of us here in America and other countries have a lot of opportunities, we really need awaken to them so that we live full lives. If we grow to appreciate what WE have then we naturally want to help those who do not have the same opportunities. I know that I am compelled to do this. I am so grateful for EVERYTHING in my life that I want to help others. When we who have so much do NOT see what we have, we offer little to those who have much less than us. I think that is one reason it is so important to awaken to what we each have. —-I will keep you and your uncle in my prayers. I promise. I am deeply honored that you shared this with me.
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Liara Covert Says:
9 January 2009 at 2:32 pm.
From the moment a person realizes they control how and what to feel, then that person’s perspective can change dramatically. You might believe all stress and anxiety begins with a negative thought. Such a thought went unchecked, spiraled and multiplied until fear grew. Stress relates back to negative thinking. As you realize you manifest all your feelings, you can revise your thoughts and teach yourself that even feeling trapped is simply a passing figment of your imagination. You can imagine solutions just as easily as problems. It begins as a choice. IN a similar way, you decide on a perspective every moment. When you awaken, you decide if it will be a fantastic day or some other kind of day. You decide whether the people you meet will enrich your life and expand your understanding of love or do something else. It begins in the mind. Everything you experience is teaching you about your own untapped power and ability to learn through the miracle of feelings. They exist as a gauge to teach you about your true self.
Robin Replies:
Thank you Liara, There is little I can add to this as it is so complete in itself. But I want to thank you for expressing this so clearly. Also, it just made me remember how my sweetheart always says, “Every morning when I awake I decide that I am going to have a really good day…no matter what happens.” And he does. That thought just made me think about how at the age of 25 I decided that I would commit “full on” to Life no matter what happened. From that point on I no longer saw things as good or bad but simply ALL of life as this fantastically vast learning experience that I hungered to be part of. Ever since then Life for me is a THRILLING adventure.
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horatio salt Says:
9 January 2009 at 2:45 pm.
“There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered.” ~ Nelson Mandela, ‘A Long Walk to Freedom’
Robin Replies:
WOW!! I love this quote. It’s not only beautiful but it took me back to a time of my life when I had returned to a place that I loved (after many years away). I found that nothing had changed in the place, BUT I had change so totally that I felt I had traveled to another planet and back and was no longer the same person. Actually…I had become the person I REALLY was all along, but had not been able to live. To stand in that unchanged place and see how much I’d grown was very powerful.
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yevgeni Says:
9 January 2009 at 3:35 pm.
A woman friend sent me your blog. This may seem strange but, I never dreamed that I would ever encounter a woman who would make a tribute to men. As a man, I have lived a life seeing what history man has brought and what is on the news; I also experience the decisions mostly made by men in every aspect of government mostly all of it in terms or reference to crime. I join the feminists with all of their hopes. Much of it for what ever reason has shamed me to feel apart of all of what I’m writing here as a male. I have come to feel that entering any relationship with a woman means entering ever so gently over much time and space that involves their wounding from this life if not deeper. I spend more energy than I am probably aware of in going about my day with as much innocence as possible, as if how I feel could go away; as if some woman might smile in my direction, as if for a second I could feel immune, innocent and free to love. Thank you for your effort! Thank you for something I will keep in my heart.
Robin Replies:
Dear yevgeni, Thank you for this heartfelt and honest sharing. RE: the tribute to men I assume you are referring to my post DO MEN CRY? I guess growing up with four brothers as well as genuinely eager to learn from (and about) the men in my life has given me a wonderful insight into some of the issues that men experience in relation to their culture, women and themselves. I feel honored to see and experience these things. I think men and women are often taught how DIFFERENT they are but are seldom taught how SIMILAR they are. Or just that they BOTH experience pain as a result of cultural conditioning. It isn’t either/or; it is both and ALL. And when we can realize that, then we start to WANT to understand “other”. Because in the “other” we will find part of ourselves. I love how that works. I appreciate your thoughts and visit here. Thank you.
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David Says:
9 January 2009 at 3:56 pm.
Thank you for this lovely work and I hope you feel better soon.
Robin Replies:
Hey David, Thank YOU! So good to see you here. You know I always appreciate your encouraging and kind words. I hope you also are feeling stronger. I really do.
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Tamera Says:
9 January 2009 at 4:04 pm.
You read my mind….Again!!! How DO you do it? Hope you feel better soon.
Robin Replies:
Hi Tamera!!! This made me chuckle. Thanks for you kindness and encouragement. It means a lot to me. And thanks for the good healthy wishes!!
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Lance Says:
9 January 2009 at 5:20 pm.
Hi Robin,
Reading this, a couple of things quickly come to my mind. First, when I went sky diving a few years ago. This was scary beyond anything I had ever done (stepping out of that plane) – and yet so freeing and liberating once I was out! It was magnificent, it was a rush, it was beautiful, it was peaceful. And above all, it was believing in myself. The other was a whitewater rafting trip this past summer, for several days. Being away from all the modern conveniences of the world, being so amongst nature, be so carefree – once again, one of the great moments of my life.
And, I believe this all fits so well with this idea you’re discussing today. With seeing the world with fresh eyes, looking at everything differently. With new appreciation for what our world is, for the beauty of new opportunities, and for all the love this world holds.
These are bigger “new things” – and yet, it’s also in the small things too. Like going out of your way to help someone you don’t know. Or walking to where you might normally drive. Or being surprised by someone in your life. Or…the list could go on and on. There is so much newness we can experience, some little, some big.
Robin, once again, I have come here and been refreshed and re-awakened! Your light and beauty shine through in new and magnificent ways every time I venture over here. I wish for you, a year filled with much love and life. (and for your head cold to go away!)
Robin Replies:
Dear Lance, I just loved this whole adventurous comment! Your enthusiasm for Life is contagious. I think you worded it so well in your second paragraph here…as well as your third paragraph about the “little things” that can make us feel more alive.
I have a dream of skydiving at some point. I have a woman friend who also wants to do it, so if I do it we will probably do together. I have a lot of flying dreams at night where I fly over vast expanses Earth. Skiing always gave me that sense of flying that is so free (I started skiing when I was about four), And it always made my soul soar just like in my dreams at night.
I am touched that you too know this experience of facing one’s fear or even just experiencing freedom or Life through EXPERIENCE (or doing) something that lifts and elevates one’s whole being. And as you say, it might simply be paying for the elder woman’s groceries. Or approaching someone who is standing in a store fighting back tears, to ask if they are okay. It is that sense of fully connecting with the world around you and within you….in as many moments as possible
I believe that our minds are capable of great things, but I also believe that for many people change of heart, uplifting of spirit, clarity of vision and possibility happens through EXPERIENCING life, and often through making the tough decisions and choices we face. I am going to be writing about this soon. You just further inspired me because I wrote a whole page after your comment and had to cut it off here. The rest I will use for the post. I thank you so much for being such force of vitality and Life. It is palpable in you. Wonderful! Would love to see pics of your sky dive and rafting trip sometime….maybe a future post?!!
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largegrouch Says:
9 January 2009 at 5:35 pm.
thank you so much, robin. this is such an inspirational creation. your sweetheart has the right idea. i find that, even in difficult times, life gives us quite a bit to enjoy every day… in the spirit of using our gifts; i stopped in my travels yesterday and picked up some art supplies which i’ve had my eye on for some months now… when i returned to my car, i found a very expensive parking ticket- i chuckled (after cursing a couple of times) and thought that my going into the store out weighed the trauma of the ticket, as i found some very valuable “tools” for myself inside. life is too short to be wasted in a state of anger. now i can pursue a couple of projects i’ve been contemplating. i hope you are feeling better soon. take care, rich
Robin Replies:
Hello my “Rich friend” Such an unexpected treat to see you here! I am honored. I LOVED this story because as I read it I felt excited that you were getting art supplies, and curious to see your art and what you do. My brother is an amazingly creative artist with several mediums. So I was excited and then when you said you got the expensive parking ticket, I thought, “Oh bummer.” BUT when I read how you CHOSE to respond to it I felt soooo excited, happy and proud of you! YES!!! That is so cool because the art supplies are wonderful for your new project AND Life is too short to waste on anger. It’s amazing how letting go of all these unimportant things can leave room for vibrant Life to rush in and take over. Thank you Rich for this sharing. I enjoyed it very much.
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Walter Says:
9 January 2009 at 6:32 pm.
Robin the evangelist, and why not?! I had my fill of delusional prophets and minsters claiming to be called by God, They often have the uncanny ability to deceive many souls, yet by practicing a false dogma, the real truth and the light of God eludes them. My savage ancestors had more love, and a closer walk with creation, than the peoples of the Book. This is still the magical world of those we call primitive, except that in our pride and lofty arrogance, we have forgotten how to love and heal each other. Abraham had no book and no religion, yet this very unorthodox man found favor in the eyes his creator. My friend Robin, knows how to walk the walk. I would have no fear of being her disciple
Robin Replies:
Aaaw Walter, you made me chuckle! I am also touched by your forthright and honest expressions here. Thank you for them. They are very welcome here. They inspire me and others to also speak our gut truth. —-Did you know that some of our earliest ancestors (whom were originally thought to be total savages and brutes, without feeling, love, or care) were later found to have left flowers and other offerings at the sites of their dead? Your thoughts here have inspired me to write a post at some point. It’s one I’ve been mulling over but now feel encouraged to express myself more honestly due to your comment. Thank you for that. —-Another thought, I find it sad that we often see these early beings as lacking soul and ability to love when — at least for me — I see planet Earth as a creation of Love, something born of Love. —Yes, ignorance can give birth to arrogance. Thank you Walter for your kind words and encouragement.
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Shirley Says:
10 January 2009 at 5:52 am.
You are so right there is so much to enjoy even if you can’t afford a vacation. The Christmas of 2007 we had a bit of a problem. First our washing machine was on the fritz with a newborn baby that’s not so good. Then, our vehicle died. We had no money at the time to fix these problems. All this is a week before Christmas. Finally, the last bad thing happened. I was in the living room with my kids and I heard water run in in my bedroom. I thought “That’s weird.” I opened the door and water was pouring from our light fixture. Our neighbors live above us. I went next door to see what was going on. Turns out all the water was from her toilet and it ruined our bed. We laughed. We couldn’t help it. I told my husband that’s it nothing else is going to happen. He said “How do you know?” “Because in my whole life everything bad comes in groups of three.” After the bed nothing did happen. My husband, who works in a furniture store, was given a bed by his co-workers. A month later the van was fixed and miraculously the washing machine stated to work again. I kept trying to convince my husband it would be ok, it always is.
Anyhow, during all that we had our moment of enjoyment because so much that wasn’t right kept happening and it just started to become funny and really it’s not funny. I just want to know what they put in that toilet or maybe I don’t.
Learning how to laugh in tough spots helps.
Robin Replies:
Oh Shirley this is a WONDERFUL story. I don’t think I know anyone who hasn’t been here. I laughed through parts of this imagining you with a new born and the baby doing what babies do best, poop, puke and drool LOL!!!! And you with no washing machine. Oh my word! And then Niagara Falls coming down on top of you from a very iffy source of water. LOL!! Then losing your bed and visualizing you sleeping on the floor in the living room…and YET look at how you dealt with it and how it turned out. I had a friend say the other day while talking about her life: “I don’t know why I bother to worry. If I look over my whole life things always work out. So why wouldn’t they now? In light of that I am going to trust that they will continue to do so.” —I am proud of you that you laughed through this. You are sure right about laughter getting us through the tough spots. I agree 100%. Thanks sweetie!
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Mel Says:
10 January 2009 at 6:48 am.
My dear Robin,
I am at that precise moment in my life.
I read this post as if it was written for me!
For the first time in my life I took a decision that will change everything for me, going against most people around me ‘think’ I should do or would be best for me… But my heart has been sad and heavy for over a decade now, and since I decided for that change, even though it is very scary (it is virtually a new life!!) I felt at ease, so relieved, and happy!!
My plan will be set in motion in a few months, after I finish previous projects and even though I’m terrified, I’m also excited!!
I’ll e-mail you with details, I need some advice!
Besos,
Mel
Robin Replies:
Dear Mel, I am soooo proud of you for listening to your heart and following its yearnings. It is a beautiful and true heart worth listening to. I know this. You are brave and have walk to the edge of the cliff and jumped off……and you will now FLY!!! You are not only facing your own fear but going against those around you, which can often be very hard to do as we love those around us and don’t want to hurt them. And yet, we must grow and let our souls follow their own course like water set free. I believe that we never really hurt anyone when we follow our heart’s truest course. —-I feel SUCH joy in just reading this Mel. I got shivers. In doing what you did and are doing you not only honor your own precious life (and allow it to change and grow), but simply through your actions you invite those around you to grow as well. A change like this Mel is much larger than we sometimes see. You are changing the whole world for the better. Bless you.
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Liara Covert Says:
10 January 2009 at 8:33 pm.
Robin, I share your view that everything about this life is indeed a daring adventure. Some people also believe that physical death will be another kind of adventure. If you choose to savor every moment, you will have no regrets.
Robin Replies:
Love the comment on physical death. Yes! Just the thought of the unknown is an adventure…even if we have had near death or related experiences that leave us with a sense or knowing of what is coming, the grand mystery of it all is still such an adventure. So vast. —-And Yes! Yes! Yes! re: savoring every moment…and we will have no regrets. I believe that is why it’s so important for us humans to seek out the lessons in the hard or painful or seemingly unpredictable times. There is so much fodder everywhere in our lives…
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earthmother Says:
10 January 2009 at 8:46 pm.
“If all of my friends who come to this site were gathered in my living room…” Wow! Can I come to THAT party?! I might be the guest who never leaves though. 
Another beautiful and insightful post, Robin. Every time I come to Eden, I just want to hang out awhile and bask in the energy I feel here – in the words, in the music, in the photos. My spirit just drinks it in. Yum.
I loved this from the video: Dare to think for yourself. Ask questions.
YES! When did We The People become We The Sheeple? I am hopeful that “We” are waking up, remembering who we are, and why it is we have come.
Robin Replies:
Oh “EarthMother”, You made my chuckle once again. I love it. I get a delightful sense of YOU reading this. That would be a fun party wouldn’t it?!!! —-I LOVE this quote of yours: “When did We The People become We The Sheeple? I am hopeful that “We” are waking up, remembering who we are, and why it is we have come.” WOW!!! That is one for your site or a book. It made me both stand up, take notice and chuckle. Is it your own? Girl, I know this, you are sure on an amazing path! You emanate health and warmth and humor. So good to see. And you are teaching others to reach for the same. Thank YOU!!!!
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Robb Says:
11 January 2009 at 6:33 pm.
Kia ora Robin,
As I sat this morning with my work attire on and cup of coffee in hand, soon to head off to work after a long New Zealand summer holiday, I read your post and watched your video. As Mel wrote above I felt as if you were “speaking” to me directly! Yesterday I was in a tent with Tara and the boys and today I am back to work. Yet I do feel Inspired, last year was a year of Learning and Meeting such special people as yourself and Ophelia, and others, and this year I feel a pull to something I have not quite got a grasp of yet, but feel it there waiting for me. So your words and presence pulled me out of a funk, along with a cuddle from Charlie just now, and for that I smile and thank you Robin. Hope you and yours had, and have, a lovely and fantastic and Nature Filled New Year. Kai kaha.
Aroha,
Robb
Robin Replies:
Oh this is lovely Robb, I am so glad Charlie and I pulled you out of a funk. I know it must be hard for you coming from such wildness back into work. That can often be hard. I think it might be doubly so for you because when you are “with” the wild you open so fully to it. You become it. I relate strongly to this. So in some ways it’s like being a beautifully wild animal going into a more domesticated situation, one that doesn’t have rolling mist, sounds of free running water and morning birds. And yet as you say there are the rewards of this more domesticated world. For Ophelia and myself as well meeting you. Oh what a treasure the three of us connecting. An unforgettable gift. —I also want to say here that I too feel that you are headed into something very wonderful and uniquely you. I have sensed that, that you are drawing to you/becoming something powerfully dynamic and fully YOU. More of who you already are. You are also confirmation of this for myself. For that I am deeply grateful and joyous. Thank you Robb for absolutely everything. Aroha, Robin
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Out-Numbered Says:
11 January 2009 at 7:23 pm.
Truly inspirational stuff. I’m glad I stopped by… Thanks for checking mine out as well… peace.
Robin Replies:
Hello Out-Numbered, Welcome and good to see you here. Thank for your kind and encouraging words. Stop by any time and feel free to bring your humorous side with you. It’s delightful!
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Tara S. Dickherber, M.Ed, CPC Says:
11 January 2009 at 8:05 pm.
Thank you Robin. Reading this I realized I need to do something new. That is what I haven’t done in a long time, step out of my box of familiarity. I ask my coaching and counseling clients to do so all the time. I must walk my talk! Be well Robin so you may continue to inspire us…
Robin Replies:
Oh Tara! This is a delightful comment. I really understand what you are saying here. Even though I wrote this post, just the way you worded your comment made me think again about the whole concept of stepping out of our “boxes of familiarity”. I like that phrase of yours. Although it can sometimes be scary or intimidating to do this, if we can just follow through on it it can create an enormous amount of joy, confidence, new perspective, self-esteem, and new life in our days. Thank you for sharing this insight. I like it. And thank you for your encouraging words.
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Lynda Lehmann Says:
12 January 2009 at 9:13 am.
Robin, your post is an amazing experience, all it’s own. I’m in awe that you also make such beautiful music and can couple it with images in such a soul-satisfying way.
I like all your words, but especially the statement that “The way is imprinted on your soul.”
I think that one of the problems in Western society is that we have given ourselves over to externalized schemes of morality, of what is right and wrong, and erected edifices and institutions we are taught to worship. All of which serves to increase our dependency and further isolate us from the natural world, as the human community becomes further splintered by the arbitrary alliances and sdivisive dictates of organized religion. If we worship dogma, we forget God. We forget we are part of a larger universe full of magnificent beauty, mystery, drama, and creative power. Too much emphasis on external authority and rigid dogmas stunts the intuitive parts of our growth and spirit, leaving us cut off from our authentic selves.
I was wondering if a lot of these shots might have been taken in Arizona, as they so resemble places I’ve seen out there.
Thanks for the early-morning “rush” as I listened to your music and read your words and took in your wonderful views. You are truly an inspiration. All the more so because you not only have power as a “Meaning Maker,” but because you encourage people to find their own power and make their own meanings.
Feel better soon, Robin, and may the sunshine clear out your stuffed head.
Robin Replies:
Dear Lynda, I read this and am left speechless…awed. I believe you reached into the VERY HEART of my soul and spoke my truth. I think Walter, who commented above, would agree with you. I feel shaken to my bones…and LOVE it!!! I was just talking about this whole issue with a friend the other day as it’s something I’m mulling over and currently writing about. But I doubt seriously that I could express it as clearly, eloquently and powerfully as you have here. I’m reveling in your words; bless you for speaking so honestly and passionately. I am profoundly moved by your depth of vision. Thank you my elegant friend for sharing this. You’ve no idea what you’ve done for me.
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Dan O. De Ment Says:
12 January 2009 at 9:35 am.
I am in AWE! Your, “Infinite Possibilities,” is spectacular. Anyone who’s fortunate to see this production will be moved. You made my day!
Dan
Robin Replies:
Dear Dan, What a treat to see you here! I tried to access your site twice but I kept getting that 404 or 401 error message, and couldn’t get through from Blog Catalog. So I am pleased to see you here. Thank you for taking the time to stop in. I am both touched and inspired by your very kind words! They mean a lot to me, brought a huge smile to my face! Especially as you are excellent with a camera. Thank you, Dan.
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Tom Volkar / Delightful Work Says:
12 January 2009 at 1:51 pm.
Robin, thanks so much for this delightful visit. Your work is so empowering and life affirming. I’ve just subscribed and placed you in my “friends” group. I usually have little patience for these blissful videos but yours captivated me because the words are so brief yet powerful.
Very well done, bravo! I particularly enjoyed your dares. Still smiling – the music was lovely as well.
Robin Replies:
Hello Tom, Welcome to Eden!! I appreciate your high praise. Thank you! Your own work is very life-giving. I so enjoyed your woodland meditation and thought of soon revisiting for another “break”. It was very relaxing. Again thanks for all your support and encouragement.
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Kit Says:
12 January 2009 at 6:52 pm.
It’s so funny- having children is such a dichotomy of an experience. . . On the one hand, you feel trapped, tied fast to their needs, and you are unable to remember what it was like to be an individual with her own thoughts and dreams. Parenthood can leave you feeling trapped in a never-ending cycle of laundry, mealtimes, errands and bedtimes. But on the other hand, children are, by nature, a constant source of new and interesting experiences. Every single day will bring you something unexpected. Every single day has wondrous opportunities for growth and appreciation. Like so many things, it is all in how you look at it, and in what you do with what is given to you.
Robin Replies:
Dear “Kitmama”, This is a refreshingly honest comment on parenthood. You have just told it like it is. I have heard this same thing from several of my close friends who are parents and love their kids. It made me think how having kids is a lot like Life itself. In Life there can be so many things that have the potential to be (or ARE) stressful, painful, and so forth and yet Life is FILLED with (as you say) “new and interesting experiences”, “wondrous opportunities for growth and appreciation”. —-And yes, I too try to be aware of what I am going to identify with. The glass half empty or the glass half full. Being an optimist I always find the glass half full. You are wise my friend. I enjoyed your sharing here very much.
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Liara Covert Says:
12 January 2009 at 8:07 pm.
Robin, I love your choice of the word, “fodder!” That is so quirky!
When it comes to thoughts of physical death or any other topic that people do not completely understand, they are often conditioned to give into fear rather than allow their minds to focus on exciting or adventurous possibilities. A person can also choose to believe regrets do not exist, that reasons for fear do not exist Just being aware of the capacity to feel can become more noticeable throughout your body.
The Dalai Lama reminds people that ignorance dwells in afflictive emotions and afflictive emotions can be dissolved as a person takes steps to overcome ignorance. Counter-productive emotions cannot exist or distract your mind unless you choose not to learn and evolve. How you choose to feel and experience your life is slowly teaching you to overcome what you create to immobilize yourself. It may seem roundabout, but it is a very effective way you guide yourself back to soul. Each of us is relearning to perceive ourselves as we truly are.
Robin Replies:
Oh Liara this is LOVELY! I think it is a wise and compassionate…loving thing to teach people to see death in new and adventurous ways, to possibly explore it as a beginning and not so much as a finite, dark, fearful ending. Many indigenous cultures taught such beliefs. —–I also LOVE what you wrote about regrets not existing. I think we can use certain situations as guides for future choices, but I have found in my own life that there is no such thing as mistakes or regrets. It is all Life. All “fodder” for growth, insight and new choices. Fodder for learning self acceptance and self compassion, forgiveness and love….and ultimately that all is perfect and as it should be for us to learn. —-And yes my dear friend, oh yes, “each of us is relearning to perceive ourselves as we already are.” How amazing is that?!! Just beautiful. Thank you.
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Jack Payne Says:
13 January 2009 at 11:11 pm.
Nothing small about your thinking, Robin. I soon figure on hearing that you’re skydiving over the Zaire jungle with a Python wrapped around your neck. Have you planned on wrestling crocodiles yet? How about taming rhinos?
I sure admire your get-up-and-go attitude. A flashback to my long-lost youth.
Robin Replies:
Oh my dear Jack, this may remind you of your youth, but believe me this “get-up-and-go” attitude is STILL who you are. It always will be. We may not wrestle crocs or tame rhinos anymore but we both have enough spirit to set the world on it’s end. You do it every time you write. My word man, you of all people set the world on it’s end. Trust me on this one!!! LOL! You not only set it on it’s end you set it spinning and jumping through hoops. I’m serious Jack.
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Janet Gardner Says:
14 January 2009 at 9:13 pm.
Hi Robin,
Thank you sooo much for your comment on my mothers legacy. This post was very inspiring to me, as that is the path I am on right now. After so much loss last year losing both my mother and mother in law within 5 months of each other, I thought I would not feel happiness or joy for a long time. I started focusing on nature all around me, the sunrises and the sunsets, and I have to say nature has helped to heal me much more than I thought it would do. So you are right, focus on the beauty around you and you will feel the beauty inside of you.
Take Care,
Janet
Robin Replies:
Dear Janet, thank you for your encouraging words; I am touched that this post inspired you…especially since you have been through so much recent loss. I am also profoundly moved that you have been open to the healing powers of Nature. Mother Nature offers us so much. This is exciting that you have discovered this avenue for healing. I am always amazed that if we can just get out of the house, our office, car, away from the TV and so forth, and simply “be with” Nature that our whole tilted internal world will start to right itself. Usually it is more powerful if we just be with Nature and don’t “do” anything. Given the chance Nature will seep in and sooth and heal. Thank you my friend. You are in my thoughts.
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Bird Says:
15 January 2009 at 4:03 am.
I used to be so good at breaking habits, finding new things to keep myself fresh (and walking out of lives that no longer worked for me if necessary), but entropy seems to be having it’s way with me right now. I’m feeling pretty stale! This post resonates for me because of that. Time to change things up before that rut gets too deep for me to crawl out of
Robin Replies:
Dear Bird, What a delight to see you fly in and visit. I honor your honesty here. I think we can all go through periods like at some point in our lives. You are such an alive and creative person I encourage you to live to your fullest. You have inspired me in that way more times than you might realize, and I thank you for everyone of them. I loved your analogy of the rut getting too deep. It made me think a time in my early twenties and the rut was so deep and I was so far down in it that I couldn’t see over the top anymore. Luckily Life interviewed and thrust me from my rut…and fortunately I not only didn’t fight it, but jumped at the chance for growth, new clarity, adventure and fresh air.
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Ophelia Rising Says:
15 January 2009 at 6:00 am.
Robin, I’ve come back and read this a few times, and now have my wits about me enough to respond (I think)! This resonates with me so well, as I’m sure it does with many of us. I am in dire need of major life changes – one of those being my inner life, who I am inside – who I am now. I haven’t had the opportunity recently – or haven’t allowed myself the opportunity – for insightful self-examination. For fully being present in myself, and listening to my heart. Instead, I’ve been sort of on auto-pilot, zooming through my days without being fully there, just motions, motions. You have reminded me of the importance of change – but for me, this change is an internal one. It begins in me. I am trapped in the external, but free in the internal. Acknowledging my freedom when I listen to my inner heart and soul will allow me to feel free, and perhaps attempt new challenges, in my outer life.
I have many ideas and goals for this year – publishing my book, getting more writing work, bringing my children to the mountains, walking more, observing nature more (with them), and working on my marriage so that it is solid and good. The list goes on and on, but I think the primary focus for all of this begins with me. And so, I am focusing on meditation in a more profound way, and am also bringing back yoga into my life on a regular basis, as a way to reconnect with myself.
I love you SO much, Robin, and I hope that we will forever be friends. You have taught me a great deal from your experiential wisdom, and I’m eternally grateful to you for that, as well as being grateful for your kind and loving heart. You are exceptional and gifted, and we are all so, so lucky that you are in this world. xoxoxo
Robin Replies:
My Dear Ophelia, As always your sentiments are so beautifully expressed. I always go away feeling like I’ve seen all the way to the bottom of your soul, right through that infinite galaxy of stars that we talked about. I really like what you wrote here about auto-pilot. I relate to it. Ever since I lived in the rainforest in such a heightened state of awareness (and in contrast to our culture) I like to ask myself everyday, “Is there anywhere I’ve fallen asleep at the wheel? Anywhere I’ve stopped questioning, stopped seeing, feeling, asking, experiencing, knowing, and so on. And how can I bring more Life into my life even within the frame work of work and sometimes a very hectic schedule?”
I think it has to be challenging when you are a parent as there are endless demands. Even when a parent loves their kids with all their heart and soul there is still the routine demands of diapers, meals, doctors, laundry, dishes, parent/teacher meetings, vacuuming, getting ready for school, saying good night, etc…..AND I have always been AMAZED at the level of love, freethinking and commitment that you do all this….and STILL stay (within yourself) very aware, passionate, emotional and open to Life. Your writing and feelings reflect your depth of awareness and thought. I also think the things that you are doing like the yoga (I do it too) and meditation (do this in nature) are great ways to have something just for YOU, a time out, a re-focusing back into yourself. Yoga is great for grounding and centering me. It also seems to uplift or energize me as I do it. —And beautiful Ophelia I am glad that YOU are in my life….always. At some point lets talk about ideas with your writing. I thought of this several times. —You are amazing taking your kids into nature. They are falling in love with it and it will stay with them their whole lives because (as you know so well) when we spend time with Nature we BECOME Nature….we become what we all ready ARE. Sending you so much love…always.
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earthtoholly Says:
15 January 2009 at 8:19 am.
Hello, Robin! What an inspiring post (as all your posts are!). Personally, I’ve found that “trapped-ness” is emotional and conditioned…sadly, fear and laziness. As you pointed out, we have so many opportunities that others do not and to let your head hold you back is sad. Many of those who do not have opportunities within easy reach strive hardest for them, while those who have the best chance of achieving their dreams, take the opportunities for granted and let them slide. Definitely some issues that I need to work on in 2009…
Your photos are beautiful…I just love your cloud-filled skies! hugs to ya! 
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Robin Replies:
Dear Holly, this is a very wise insight you have expressed here. I have had both times of plenty and times of sparseness in my life. I’d have to say that the times of sparseness deeply forged my character and made me appreciate every single person, thing and opportunity I have in my life. I’m grateful for that “knowing”. It is now such a part of who I am that I don’t forget it for even a day. I love being that aware….I guess because it opens my eyes to even more opportunities. Also, because I LOVE Life and living and don’t want to miss even a minute of it. I once knew a woman who came from Viet Nam who had only the clothes on her back and she got a job and put herself through college. The amazing thing is that she was SO thankful for EVERY SINGLE THING that she would get tears in her eyes over the simplest things and then bless the giver with the most glorious smile, like a small child over a huge lit Christmas tree. Thank you for sharing here and for your kindness.
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JOURNEYTIME Says:
15 January 2009 at 1:49 pm.
Robin,
Great posting—-when people mention the word investment there is always the assumption that it has to do with money.
How about being one’s own investment broker in one’s life and taking the gamble on the biggest payoff one could ever hope to realise.
This is something I wrote recently which kind of dovetails with the rest–
A turn of the wheel
An altered perspective
Each revolution
A letting go
Piece by piece
Without the vision
Without the whole
Only a part
Seemingly contained
Seemingly whole
Parts merge
Creating a larger whole
Opportunities….
Ingesting more of life
Still
Missed moments
Hanging on
The fear
The lack of…
The intuit
Through the conduit
Ingest all
A gormandising force
A voracious physical appetite
Filling the vehicle
With the letting go
The surrender
Another turn
Of the wheel
Greater clarity
Superior resolution
Each turn
A holding on
A letting go
A dying
A rebirth
Take care
Namaste friend
derick
Robin Replies:
Dear Derick, This is SUCH a gift. First off I love the line, “How about being one’s own investment broker in one’s life and taking the gamble on the biggest payoff one could ever hope to realise.” Your thinking and more importantly your freedom of thought and perception is so very very uplifting and exciting. I just love it. And my friend, this poem is like LIFE!!! I love the way it builds and each turn gathering more momentum, insight, life and wisdom. It is dynamic and expresses the growth of the human soul. I flipped over these words: “A gormandising force A voracious physical appetite” Oh Derick, you KNOW I relate to this. A gormandising force. WOW!!! So excellent. It is how I feel about Life, so in love with it that I cannot possibly devour enough. Do you that is how LIFE itself feels, that is why creation (evolution) thrusts itself forward, without a backward glance. I agree with Ophelia about this passage: “Each turn A holding on A letting go A dying A rebirth” So beautiful! You are definitely a free spirit, Derick, with a deep malleable soul. Thank you for this amazing gift.
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Ophelia Rising Says:
15 January 2009 at 6:33 pm.
Journeytime, I love these lines:
“Each turn
A holding on
A letting go
A dying
A rebirth”
So beautiful and so true. Perhaps when the turning of the wheel stops at the “holding on” phase, it makes us unable to handle change, or to let new perspectives into our lives. Letting go is hard. Really hard. Letting something die is perhaps harder. But if this happens, then certainly a rebirth will occur, bringing with it a new joy (or two)!
Thanks for sharing this.
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Tammy Says:
18 January 2009 at 9:33 pm.
I just had this very discussion with my son today. He wanted to know how I could stay so upbeat all of the time. Why did I not get frustrated with myself when I could not remember Algebra from 20 years ago and I had to spend my entire Sunday afternoon relearning things I had forgotten just so I could help him. Why did I love life?
Our conversation went on to discuss that life is for the living.
Everything that is alive is changing second by second…moment by moment. Leaves turn colors in the fall, only to be reborn again in the spring. Joy one moment is replaced with sorrow the next. The clouds might cover the sky only to give way to the sun. When there is no change, there is no life.
What does this have to do with Algebra. Well, this particular life moment (today) made me go back in time and relearn something that I once dreaded. I was young once, right? Now that I am older I view Algebra differently. I am excited about math. We “feel trapped” when we stop living and allowing ourselves to be challenged. When we stop just because we might be older. We stop because we might be tired. A little change wakes one up. It nourishes our soul. Even something as simple as getting a “word” problem correct after 20 years is enough to lift my spirits.
I find that my children lift me up. I feel for those parents that are worn down because they don’t see the simple challenges that a child can offer can sometimes be a positive challenge that we need. We just need to accept the challenge and see where it takes us.
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Dear Tammy, I find this lovely, so like you. Your awareness to use everything that comes your way to grow is VERY refreshing and beautiful to witness. Your interaction with your children is amazing. The fact that your son is so aware of your positive outlook means that he is feeling it and contrasting to himself and raising questions in him. Questions about himself and what choices he will make. You have given him wonderful imprinting that he will NEVER forget. He will refer back to it as a gauge. Tammy you are filled with vitality no matter what life throws your way, and that vitality is contagious. It rubs off on all those who come within your sphere. Even over the internet. You daily feed the collective pool of Life and Love. I thank you for that Sweet Tammy.
—-This is a VERY powerful line you wrote and is applicable to us ALL whether we have children of not. Very wise and true. “I feel for those parents that are worn down because they don’t see the simple challenges that a child can offer can sometimes be a positive challenge that we need. We just need to accept the challenge and see where it takes us.” —-You bettcha Tammy!!!
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brainteaser Says:
24 February 2009 at 8:29 am.
Robin!
I’ve got nothing much to share to this, but I want you to know that I hear you and you inspire me so.
How positively you look at life! Thank you for reminding us what life really is.
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Walter Says:
24 February 2009 at 10:16 am.
Robin, Your words are a great inspiration and you will be much in demand in the turbulent days to come. Keep the faith my friend, and do not lose heart, for our divine destiny approaches!
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